Does It Matter? or Why Does It Matter? When you start your new day, what options do you have of spending that day? Is it possible that this day can have importance or be wasted in the big scheme of things. “Does anything really matter?” Is there such a thing as a long term importance of what we do with our lives? I believe that you who read this have put a spiritual value to life beyond the temporary preoccupations. How does it feel in the evening for you, after a day’s work, when you contemplate the impact of your day? Do you feel that you were an inspiration for a long term value for yourself and for others? “Did you matter?” What Matters?
What happens if you are not choosing to believe that your day matters? Even if you are right about your influence on your future and that it doesn’t matter what you do you still have an affect about how you feel about yourself now. How is it beneficial to focus on what matters?
So, now you are choosing a day that will have value to you. How do you know it is valuable?
As an Member you meet prospective workshop participants. You need to feel your importance and value to yourself and to them as you invite them to the workshop. When they are checking your “value-meter” and ask you questions how do you respond?
When you are moving to higher levels of success, you may stumble and want to retreat. This is most easily done by the unconscious resistance to change. It appears as “It doesn’t really matter” if they attend this workshop or not. Stepping back and asking yourself again, as we do in the mornings about our day, we can ask again: “Does it matter” if they attend the workshop or not? What are the results, for them and me, if they don’t attend the workshop and go on that holiday instead or have to work or can’t create the baby-sitter or money? What are the results if they do attend the workshop?
Creative vision Imagining being an aspiring workshop participant and having a meeting with an Member. You have your doubts. You ask what about the value: I have many important activities in my life. Should I spend that much money and time on it? What response do you want? Imagine meeting a prospective workshop participant. They have doubts. They will check out your belief and how much you stand behind the workshop by asking you questions. How do you respond? What do you think they want and expect as a response from you? If they truly wanted you to not stand behind your work they wouldn’t spend time talking to you in the first place. They want you to be assertive and enjoy your creation. They want to grow and have “A Better Life!” Why Do You Matter? Why Do You Care? |